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Do You Jump Out of Bed Every Morning…?
…energized and thrilled about starting the day? Do you enjoy vibrant health, deep love, time freedom, and financial abundance?
Do you feel fulfilled, expanded, and purposeful? Does your life inspire you and give you joy? Do you have the freedom and confidence of knowing you can accomplish ANYTHING you want?
If you answered “no” to any of these questions, then you’re in the right place.
If you’re not living the life of your dreams, it’s not because you don’t want it or aren’t
capable of achieving it…
It’s because you were never taught how to make it a reality. And today, we’re going to change that.
Everyone has the power within themselves to change their lives for the better.
This power is available to everyone, no matter their circumstances, situation, or condition.
I know this because I found myself in the direst of circumstances at age 18. But at that time, someone revealed a special power to me…
…and my entire life changed.
Since then I’ve had the privilege of working with thousands of people who sought my guidance.
These were talented, smart, and motivated people who, despite all of that, felt unfulfilled, unhappy, frustrated, and even saddened by their lives.
But they don’t feel that way anymore. Like you, they knew that there had to be a way to achieve their dreams – so they went in search of it. And now they’re living the lives they imagined.
You’ve Already Tapped Into This Power (Without Even Realizing It)
Think about the last time you had a big project to do with very little time to do it – but somehow still found a way to get it done.
Perhaps you negotiated for more time or delegated tasks so that everything was accomplished.
Or maybe you just buckled down, manifested a huge burst of productivity and finished the task by yourself, in record time.
Whichever method you chose, the bottom line is, you got it done.
And whatever the nature of this challenge was, I’m sure there have been times in your life when you’ve taken on something that was bigger than what you thought you could do, and discovered abilities you didn’t realize you had.
But there may have also been times when you’ve given up.
When we feel stuck or challenged by a situation that’s out of our control, it can be so easy to give in to feelings of fear, worry, doubt, anger, or even resignation.
When circumstances like these arise, it’s common to think thoughts like:
However, it’s up to us to determine whether those circumstances will master us, or we’ll master our circumstances and turn our obstacles into opportunities. This is part of tapping into the power within.
What’s More Powerful? Your “I Can” or Your “IQ”?
Henry Ford once said:
“Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right.”
So today, let’s expand the boundaries of the “I Can.”
The “I Can” is way more important than IQ. The “I Can” is the sense of possibility that dwells within you, that is Life ever-seeking to express and expand within you.
It pulls you to express the greatness, glory, and wonder that frees you to give your gifts to the world.
Ultimately, the truth is that you are the only one who can say “yes” to that pull. Nothing and no one else can cause you to succeed or fail to reach your dreams.
You have more power than you know, and your results can start to change the moment you make the decision to do things differently.
As we’ve seen, chances are that you’ve already done this in your life to achieve smaller goals. Now you need to learn how to tap into this power consistently.
You may be thinking,
“It’s easy enough to say that, but if I have all that power, why haven’t I been able to use it all the time?”
The answer is that this power has always existed, but only a small percentage of people know how to harness it.
Your ability to access this power isn’t automatic, nor is your ability to make it work in your favor. You have to consciously learn how to harness it and make it work with you, not against you.
This power operates by invisible laws, called the Invisible Laws of Success, and when you learn to work with these laws, the possibilities are endless.
These invisible laws are comparable to electricity. Electricity has enabled our species to create amazing things, but humans did not invent it. It was invisible to us.
Electricity has ALWAYS existed; Benjamin Franklin simply learned how to work with it and since then, thousands have harnessed it for the betterment of our civilization.
The process for achieving your dream is like plugging into an electrical socket for power. If you want light, you don’t just snap your fingers and hope that light will show up.
You can’t make electricity work the way you want it to work; you have to work within its invisible laws.
Once you work with its laws and wire your house accordingly, you can then plug a lamp into that electrical socket to produce light whenever you flip a switch.
Just like the laws of electricity, the Invisible Laws of Success work the same way, every time, no matter who you are.
Electricity doesn’t care how old you are, how educated you are, or even about your background.
If you’re in alignment with the laws of electricity, you can shine a very bright light no matter where you are or how little success you’ve had in the past.
I say this with 100% confidence: The Invisible Laws of Success work for you, no matter your background, gender, location, or past history.
If you have doubts, then read this story about William Kamkwamba.
When a severe famine left his family unable to pay his tuition and forced him to drop out of school, William Kamkwamba could have easily given up on his dreams to break free from a life of menial labor and poverty.
With no electricity in his home, no money, and no access to formal education, William began to go to his local library where he discovered a love for electronics.
At age 14, he started to consider how he might be able to create a better life for himself and his family.
Although William didn’t have much, he did have a bicycle, some experience repairing radios, and noticed there was consistent wind at his home.
So he set to work and built a makeshift windmill, and eventually built a functioning model that powered some of his family’s electrical appliances.
This feat drew attention from local farmers and journalists, then from international news outlets.
His fame skyrocketed, and he was invited to speak as a guest at TEDGlobal 2007. He accepted the invitation, and the audience was so moved by his speech that several venture capitalists pledged to help finance his secondary education.
Thanks to William’s tenacity and resourcefulness, circumstances that could have condemned him to a life of menial labor and lack, instead became the catalyst that helped him to become a well-known innovator, engineer, and author.
William was able to conquer his situation because he imagined what was possible and then moved forward without letting fear and doubt get in his way.
Now it’s your turn to imagine what’s possible.
There are moments in life when we may sense that more is possible. It could be while taking a walk, experiencing a quiet moment at home, or driving home from work and catching a glimpse of a different kind of life for ourselves. We might even see ourselves being more, doing more, and experiencing more in life.
Whether it’s owning our own business doing what we love, living in our dream home close to the ocean or the mountains, or falling in love with our soulmate, this glimpse of a different life is uplifting and shakes us to the core.
It’s a life we are meant to live. It’s a life whose allure is so powerful that it calls to us when we least expect it. It inserts itself into our thoughts and it reminds us that we can’t turn our hearts away from its promise.
In those moments, you may discover that it’s possible to feel more alive and more joyful than you do now, maybe even more than you’ve ever thought you could!
You can see yourself laughing, feeling free, bringing your best self to the world, ecstatically enjoying each day, and living in alignment with your greatest gifts.
In this vision of possibility, your friends, family, co-workers, and colleagues are fully supportive. Right now, I invite you to feel that deep sense of belonging and acceptance. It’s so good to be in this dream that has your name on it.
What is your specific dream? What would you love to be, do, have, or create? Take a piece of paper and write some notes and hold it in your heart for a moment…
It is here when an old familiar voice now begins to talk to you. It may start saying things like:
The problem for most people is that they don’t know how they’ll ever accomplish the very thing that’s calling them.
As good as their dream feels, they can’t visualize their dream for very long without doubts creeping in.
Can you relate to any of these thoughts?
Think of the doubts that you are hearing right now, and write them down. What are the challenges you face in achieving your dream?
As you imagine all the obstacles in your way, you may start to feel powerless to reach your dream.
Doubts and fears seem to get bigger as we get older. Instead of being able to “plug into” our power with the confidence of young William Kamkwamba, we experience “glitches” that cause the power to blink on and off.
The “loose connections” that we sometimes experience are caused by “paradigms”
Paradigms are the old beliefs that you acquired while you were growing up. They’re the habits that protect the status quo, the mindsets that make positive changes feel unfamiliar and uncomfortable, and the fears that tell you that if you try, you will only fail.
Your paradigms can be very powerful, but with consistent effort and some awareness of what to look for, you CAN overcome them.
Here are some examples of how paradigms can interfere with your journey to your ideal life:
As you can see, each of these paradigms is a reflexive attempt to protect the familiar status quo. As soon as you begin to imagine a more expansive version of your current life—when you begin to dream and to make changes in your life—your paradigm will immediately kick in and do its best to prevent you from taking action that might alter your results.
When you work to overcome your paradigms, it’s important to remember that there’s a part of you that wants to move forward and a part that wants to maintain your current reality.
Navigating change always involves a choice – will I take the next step or not?
There are 3 things that can keep you rooted in your current circumstances, even if you have a clear vision for your life and understand the Invisible Laws of Success. I call them the 3 Ds.
Your paradigm doesn’t speak to you when you’re in your comfort zone. The only time it speaks to you is when you grow. So, when you’re seeking to expand your life, this is what you might encounter:
Your paradigm isn’t going to say, “I’m your paradigm and I’m here to stop you from achieving your dream!” It’s going to be much sneakier. Here are a few distractions you may have experienced before:
• You have a meeting first thing in the morning on Monday, so you should think about that right now.
• You’ll be more creative if you get your laundry done and your desk cleared off first.
• You’ll be able to build your dream better if you’re not hungry. How about some lunch now?
• You haven’t checked your phone in ten minutes. Maybe there’s an important message you should read first.
Your paradigm won’t bust through the doors of your mind yelling, “Stop taking steps toward your dream!” It just does what it does best—it distracts you!
If your paradigm can’t distract you, it will come at you with a different tactic. It’s going to dissuade you, and the common catchphrase is, “I actually don’t want to.”
Think back to the last time you set a big goal for yourself, something that took some effort to accomplish. Let’s say you wanted to be promoted at work.
You thought about setting up a meeting with your boss to discuss future opportunities, but before you could make the call, you found yourself saying, “I’m busy enough as it is. I don’t want the added stress.
The rise in pay won’t make that much of a difference. You know, maybe I don’t want the promotion.” Then the goal you set for yourself was forgotten, and you never accomplished it.
The challenge is that your paradigm knows everything about you. It remembers all the times when you didn’t do what you said you were going to do.
It has access to the whole filing cabinet of failed attempts, forgotten dreams, and unrealized goals.
3. DEFCON 1
If your paradigm can’t stop you thru distraction or dissuasion, it’s going to try one last thing. It’s going to trigger “DEFCON 1,” or your fight-or-flight reflex, which is difficult to ignore.
You’re going to feel an uncontrollable or irrational fear, which has the capacity to stop you dead in your tracks when you’re building your dream.
DEFCON is a United States military term that stands for “Defense Readiness Condition” and number 1 is the highest state of alertness in times of national security threats.
When you’re in a state of DEFCON 1, you move right past your rational, intellectual thinking. You might begin to feel flushed, jittery or panicked, and not know why.
See if you can relate to any of these circumstances:
When DEFCON 1 happens, you may be tempted to rush back to the familiar because, in the moment, your feelings are alarming. The familiar maybe your daily routine, “safe” job, “okay” relationship, or the comforts of your current home.
These tactics are very convincing, and they can crush your dreams if you aren’t alert. Fortunately, there are ways you can overcome the insidious forces of your paradigm, and quickly and easily begin to live your dream.
The key to understanding your paradigm is to notice when you feel a resistance to something new. When you begin to feel uncomfortable, in doubt or conflicted, that’s a good sign. It means your paradigm is kicking in and trying to pull you back toward the familiar, and the only time it does that is when you’re making real progress.
The allure of the familiar is strong, and it will take a lot of mental energy to overcome its pull. It’s not easy to re-pattern your thoughts, but if you’re going to create the life of your dreams, it must be done.
Should you just white-knuckle through it? Or is there another, easier, more effective strategy?
The truth is, everyone has a paradigm because it’s a part of human nature. Most people stay stagnant because, after many failed attempts to overcome their paradigm, they’ve given up on living their dream.
The good news is…
YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THESE PEOPLE!
Now that you’re aware of your paradigm and its strategies, the times when it rears its head are no longer obstacles. Instead, they’re a priceless opportunity to re-pattern your thoughts.
Here are three effective tools to help you rewire your mind for success, and overcome your paradigm:
1. Notice what you’re noticing.
It’s critically important to develop the capacity for “paradigm awareness,” so that you’re able to notice when your thoughts, feelings, and actions are not in alignment with your dream. This happens to everyone!
If you have any of the following thoughts, know that your paradigm is operating its agenda:
These thoughts are called “closed systems,” and they reinforce your paradigm. When you notice these thoughts, first acknowledge them without judgment. When you notice that you are noticing these types of thoughts, you can now start to re-pattern them.
Soon, you’ll find that you can re-pattern these thoughts more and more quickly as they come up.
My favorite way to re-pattern my thoughts is by using the “3 Magic Words”. The next time you think disempowering thoughts, catch yourself and add the words, “up until now” at the end!
By doing this simple step, you re-pattern your thoughts to be more positive and reclaim your power to start writing the story of your life anew, beginning at this moment.
When you vividly picture your dream, what paradigm or pattern of thinking is the strongest and loudest? What are the voices of doubt and contraction saying? Which phrases are your paradigm’s favorite?
Take a few minutes to write them down. This increases your ability to notice them when they come up again as you build your dream.
Next, brainstorm ways you can re-pattern this paradigm to serve your dream. What beliefs or thoughts will move you in the direction of your dream? Here are some ideas to get you started:
Now, re-write your paradigms from above in a re-patterned way. If you’re stuck, simply add “up until now” to the end of your paradigm’s favorite phrases.
2. Tap your “internal pause button”
When you find that your paradigm challenges you with distraction, dissuasion, and DEFCON 1, hit your “internal pause button” and take a deep breath.
A deep breath helps you relax and opens your creative center. The next time you feel stressed or tense, pay attention to your breathing. Take several slow, deep breaths, and with intention, release the stress from your body. Take a minute to experiment with it now and see if you feel calmer.
Take a deep breath while mentally counting to four.
Now hold your breath to the count of two.
Now, let go of that breath through your mouth while mentally counting to 4.
How did that feel?
To successfully re-pattern your paradigm, believe the messages are in alignment with your dream. If you ever notice a disempowering thought, pause for a moment, take a deep breath, and then bring the details of your dream to mind.
The details and feeling of your dream are what you want to align with. Go back to the section where you wrote down your dream and re-read what you set out for yourself. Slow down, take a moment, and vividly imagine the situation you desire.
Now, return to the present moment with the energy and enthusiasm you feel from the future you deserve and WILL have. This helps to establish a new pattern of thinking and enables you to step out of your comfort zone and in the direction of your dream.
3. Take action.
When you think of an aspect of your dream or vision that seems impossible, take a moment to consider: What can you do with what you have, from where you are?
There is never a perfect starting point, and it doesn’t matter how big or small an action you take! Taking action sends a signal to your subconscious mind that you are indeed changing your life, and your belief system then aligns with the action you’re taking. (This is how the invisible laws work. Remember when I said they work like electricity? They are invisible, but all one is required to do is to tap into the invisible laws. THIS is what I meant. This is a step on that journey.)
So, take action, any action, in the direction of your dream from wherever you are.
Do what you can, with what you have, to move forward because it is always way more than you think you are capable of.
Your future self will thank you for the courage you choose to have today.
At any given moment, you have the opportunity to listen to your vision. That voice is the voice of expansion that wants you to move forward. Or you can choose to listen to your paradigm, which is the voice of constriction that wants you to stay stuck.
When you are faced with a new opportunity or challenge, you may hear yourself thinking, “I can’t” or, “I don’t know how.” It’s important you challenge these types of thoughts because often they’re not true. The voice of expansion often says:
And the voice of constriction often says:
The voice that you listen to is the key to empowering your dream. There’s an old Cherokee story that illustrates this concept very well.
One evening, an elderly Cherokee Chief told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, “My son, the battle is between the two wolves inside us all. One wolf is evil. It is angry, envious, jealous, sorrowful, regretful, greedy, arrogant, self-pitying, guilty, inferior, dishonest, prideful, superior, and egocentric.
The other wolf in this battle is good. He is joyful, peaceful, loving, hopeful, serene, humble, kind, benevolent, empathic, generous, honest, compassionate, and faithful.”
The grandson thought about it for a moment, and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf wins?” The old Cherokee replied simply, “The one you feed.”
Energy flows where attention goes, so feed the voice of expansion and starve the voice of constriction. Believe yourself when you think, “I choose to do this and I’m going to do my best.”
Are You Willing to Put in the Practice?
It’s not easy to overcome paradigms that you’ve spent your entire life creating. Though it sounds simple, noticing what you notice and following up with steps to re-pattern your thinking takes a concerted effort.
You may try and fail several times before you begin to see progress. However, this is a practice. We know that when we want to master a skill, we must practice. People say that meditation is a practice. Some say they have a “yoga practice.”
Paradigm-shifting is a practice as well. It requires the regular, intentional application for your dream to materialize..
You may wonder, “If it takes that much effort, then why even try? Why not just live a comfortable and ‘easy’ life?”
There are several answers to that question; look at them, and decide which is true for you:
Whatever it is that you want to overcome, is it really easier than re-patterning your paradigms and creating a life of abundance and ease?
Take a moment to imagine the life you desire.
Feel the presence of the love of your life: a soulmate who loves and respects you, and makes you feel cherished, special and safe, standing by your side and holding your hand.
Imagine a vocation that makes you eager to get out of bed each day, because you’re making people’s lives better, and earning an abundant income by doing what you love.
Picture yourself in the mirror, looking healthy, bright-eyed and energetic, and feel the vigor and joy of living in a body that’s happy and well-cared-for.
And envision yourself looking at your schedule, and realizing that you can work as much or as little as you want today. You can spend the day doing work you love, or you can choose to take some time to play with your kids, enjoy your partner’s company, or luxuriate in some ‘me time’ with your favorite hobbies.
Isn’t that worth changing your thought patterns?
When you re-pattern your disempowering thoughts and then experience success, you have the joy and satisfaction of knowing that you’re progressing toward living a life you’d love to live and that you’re not stagnant anymore.
By studying and using the information contained in this article, you’ll practice how to direct your thoughts in a way that empowers you, instead of pulling you back to your old way of doing things.
Look, feeling stuck is common. Part of you (the dreamer) wants to move forward to experience a fuller, freer, more expanded expression of life, but another part of you (your ego/paradigm) wants things to stay exactly the same.
The latter part of you likes familiarity and comfort. It’s the part of you that says, “My life is good.” That part of our nature is what holds us back and doesn’t want us to grow, even when the changes can bring us joy and freedom. It’s a natural part of being human. Remember, “good” is the enemy of “great.”
As you’re hearing me, you have two choices.
1. I choose to serve the part of me that wants to go forward; to experience life to its fullest and I choose to move confidently in the direction of my dream.
2. I choose to serve the part of me that is afraid of unlocking my true potential and wants everything to remain the same. “Life is good.”
How easy is it for us to tell ourselves, “I’ll work out tomorrow.” but it never happens? Or, “I’ll set up a meeting with my boss next week to ask for a raise,” but when the time comes we make some excuse?
How easy is it to tell ourselves, “Life is good.”? How easily seduced are we by this paradigm in particular?
The truth is that the only place where true transformation can take place is in this moment.
If you choose to serve the part of you that wants to go forward to live a freer life, then you must take the first step towards your dream.
Imagine a time three years from now. You’re living your dream. You:
Three years from now you’ll see you were able to overcome your paradigms and are now living a life you love. It took a consistent effort to create this grander, more fulfilling life, but you did it.
Looking back, be proud of yourself for taking that first step on the journey to living your dream.
You’ve just absorbed a lot of information, and hopefully, you’re ready to take that first step. Maybe you already have a dream and are starting to formulate an action plan, or perhaps you feel like you still need a little more help, because you don’t have a clear dream yet, or you’re not sure that you have the knowledge and confidence to make that dream a reality.
Either way, I strongly suggest that you find a qualified mentor who can guide you through this process, and who can help you believe in your personal power to get through critical moments when you’re in doubt.
It’s vital to have a mentor, because people who try to make big, daunting changes by themselves almost always revert to their old habits, even when they are strong-willed people who think they know better.
When people set goals like New Year’s resolutions, even when they do their best to believe in their own ability to keep moving forward, the vast majority of them fail.
For the few that succeed, one of the biggest differences is the fact that they have someone to hold them accountable and to keep them on track and in action.
I can be that accountability partner, but I can also be much, much more.
Remember earlier when I mentioned I was in dire circumstances myself? It wasn’t just dire. I was dying…
until someone revealed the power of the Invisible Laws of Success to me and turned my life around. From that point forward, I’ve dedicated my life to studying these laws.
Unlike a normal accountability partner, I have developed a proven, repeatable system that’s helped thousands of people discover the dreams that truly aligned with their desires and purposes, and to help them turn those dreams into reality.
I worked with them through every step of the process, which made the whole journey easier and more fun and enabled them to build their dreams in a fraction of the time they thought it would take.
I want to do the same for you. In fact, your dreams are so important to me that I have created an online course that gives you the dream-building tools you’re currently missing. In the course, I explain in detail how you can:
- Make FAST quantum leaps in your health, your finances, your relationships, or your career.
- Experience success in every area of your life.
- Get clarity on what your dream really is, and find the motivation to go after it.
No matter what your life circumstances, you CAN take inspired action to change your life for the better. No matter what has happened to you in the past, or what pain and challenge you’re going through now, you CAN live a life you absolutely LOVE living.
I’ve seen this to be true for literally hundreds of people, of all ages and from all walks of life, all around the world. I’ve seen people:
- Go from missing child support payments to putting their kids through private school, stress-FREE…
- HEAL from debilitating auto-immune disorders that had them couch-ridden 20+ hours/day, unable to play outside with their kids…
- Put an END to wasting away their lives in soul-sucking, exhausting jobs, and find new, fulfilling ways to make MORE money, doing less work…
- Attract loving partners to their sides, to spend the rest of their lives with, and enjoying deeper relationships with EVERYONE they know and care for…
All of these people were able to transform their lives so dramatically for the better because they learned and applied what I’ve been teaching my entire adult life.
I created this masterclass, Self-Empowerment Via The Principles of Ifa, to teach YOU how you can start creating your dream life today.
Once you know these principles, and start applying my system of transformation to your life, you don’t have to guess what to do anymore – you can simply follow the steps and watch your life transform.
It’s not always easy, but it can always be that SIMPLE.
Join me in this masterclass, and you will learn:
- The #1 factor that stands between you and your dreams coming true (more important than thinking positive, working hard, or even refusing to give up)…
- The higher power that lies within you, and how it can guide you, with amazing precision, through ANY difficult life circumstance, step by step…
- A set of tools that can save you YEARS of wasted time and energy, so you can move your life forward stress-free, and make things better for you and the ones you love…
What you’ll discover will help you unlock a more extraordinary life for you and your loved ones. Start your journey today!
In this article, you’ve discovered how to keep your paradigms from sabotaging your dreams. Now, it’s time to find out how to realize those dreams, in less time and with less work than you probably think possible!
One of the principal philosophers of this type of “thinking” was Henry David Thoreau. I end this article with my favorite quote of his.
“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined … he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
To your greatest success…